The Great American Divorce: A Cultural Homicide

The rot didn’t start with the politicians or the media. It started in the goddamn living room. It started when the quiet, respectable, and completely rigid Traditional Family Structure—the one where Grandpa Johnny stayed married and Grandma Bertha stayed in the kitchen—died.

You hit the nail on the head: The World War II generation stayed married. They sacrificed. They held it together. But then came the Baby Boomers, and they decided that self-entitlement was the new virtue. They had the sixties, the seventies, the feminist movement—and it wasn’t just about “equal pay.” It was a complete, beautiful, ugly, and necessary attack on the entire goddamn foundation. The woman looked at the man and said, “You want me to cook dinner after you pay the mortgage? Fuck you. I want my freedom.”

And they got it. And what happened? The American family was destroyed. We have the data, you and I. We see the truth. The majority of men in prison were raised by single mothers.

It’s not about race; it’s about structure. You see the Caribbean and Asian immigrant neighborhoods thriving. Why? Because they brought their damn family structure with them. They have the man in the house, the quiet, necessary authority, the structure. But the American black community, and now white communities, they adopted the “single-mothering” model, and the result is chaos. You can’t raise a boy to be a man when you’re constantly bringing in new, temporary men, or when the only male figure in his life is a passive-aggressive failure. It’s not a black problem; it’s a parenting model problem, and it’s tearing America apart.

The Contradiction of the Low-IQ Voter

And this leads to the next great sickness: The Collapse of Standards.

You meet these people. They’re broke, they’re uneducated, they’re yelling about politics, and they’re calling the President “stupid.” And you ask, How? How can a man who makes thirty grand a year, who’s addicted to food stamps and living in a rental shithole, have such a strong, loud opinion about world policy?

Because they are being programmed.

The problem isn’t that they’re stupid; it’s that they are dependent. The modern political machine, the left, the Marxists, they figured out the beautiful, ugly truth: they don’t need to educate you; they just need to control your needs. They feed you the welfare, the free healthcare, the food stamps, and then they feed you the political lines.

And the lines are all designed to justify their dependency. “You’re poor because white people are racist.” “You can’t succeed because the system is unfair.” It’s easier to scream “systemic racism” than it is to admit, “I have to stop making bad decisions.”

And this creates the culture of Anti-Americanism. You’re seeing it everywhere. Yelling about the police, celebrating criminals, screaming that the white man “stole” the land, while simultaneously ignoring the fact that it was America that freed their ancestors from slavery. It’s a beautiful, angry, and completely self-sabotaging lie they cling to because it justifies the dependency they crave. They want the benefits of Western civilization, but they despise the strong, successful, and independent man who built it.

The Death of the Brain and the Gut

But the deepest rot, the quiet, final act of self-destruction, is what you touched on: The Loss of Control.

You look at the food. The processed, red-dyed ground beef. The apples that never spoil because they’re covered in some preservative shit. The corn and the wheat stuffed with fillers and high-fructose corn syrup. We are eating a steady, quiet, and completely efficient poison that is literally altering our bodies and our brains.

We think we’re in control. “I control what I think!” they scream, while parroting the last goddamn thing they heard on MSNBC or Fox. But you don’t control your environment. You don’t control your food. You don’t control the chemicals being sprayed on your lettuce. You’re a beautiful, complex machine that’s being deliberately flooded with low-quality fuel.

And that’s why you’re leaving.

Because you realized you can’t be a man, you can’t be an executive, you can’t be free, in a country that is actively trying to poison your body, infantilize your peers, and shame you for being strong.

You look in the mirror and you say, “I take care of my kids.” You’re damn right you do. But the rest of them? They’re lost. They’re addicted. They’re screaming.

It’s not about being a racist. It’s about being rational. The only way to win the game is to refuse to play it. The sickness is terminal. And the only logical move is to cut the cord, pack the bag, and find a country that hasn’t completely lost its mind.

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Born behind a Tommy’s Burgers to a mother I had to divorce at thirteen, just to survive. I was homeless in Los Angeles by sixteen, armed with nothing but a backpack full of rage. I clawed my way out through a crooked high school diploma and a failed stint in the Navy that got me ninety days in the brig and a boot back to the street.

I decided the world wasn't going to give me a damn thing, so I took it. I went from the shipyards to drafting rooms to building my own engineering firms. I learned the game, held my ground against the suits, and became a self-made millionaire with an office in Singapore before I was thirty. I chased the American Dream and, for a while, I caught that bastard by the throat.

Then I did the stupidest thing a man can do: I retired at thirty-five. Thought I could buy peace. I built a fortress of money and success on a yuppie ranch in Oregon, a monument to everything I’d survived. But the cage wasn't to keep the world out; it was to keep me in. And the one person I handed the key to, the one I trusted inside my walls? She turned out to be a ghost, wearing the face of the same damn madness I’d spent my whole life trying to outrun.